If you make a choice to do something and it ends up causing you grief, can you complain about it? Isn't the grief self-inflicted?
If you decide you don't love your spouse like a person is suppose to love a spouse and you tell your spouse this and you make plans to be with another and for whatever reason it makes you sad or upset or whatever, should people around you feel bad for you? Isn't this one of those times where you're making your bed and you need to lay in it?
Am I wrong for not feeling sorry for this person?
